It is often said that you should never reveal all your likes, dislikes and naughty desires in a relationship. This might be true for some things like your true opinion of his shirt and tie that day but when it comes to sex you have to confess all your sexual fantasies and desires to him.
There are a lot of adult sex products that bring a whole new kind of feeling and sensation to your sexual experience. How do you ever expect him to develop an understanding of who you are and what you're about in bed and vise versa if you don't talk about it? Sexual activity between couples needs to be fostered slowly and gradually. Talk about what you may find sexually pleasing or what you may have ever wondered about.
Sex is the source of great pleasure to our overall well being. It is a given fact that as human beings we need to orgasm. This brings contempt and comfort and a true overall body sense of relaxation. Now tell him that you once had a fantasy about what it is like to be penetrated anal and vaginally at the same time. You can accomplish this with a double dildo. You don't need two real penises to experience this great pleasure.
Sexual fantasy or behavior should be explored. Even if you are embarrassed to openly discuss that you want to be penetrated with the biggest black dildo slip him a note or go and buy the toy yourself. You might surprise yourself how quickly he responds to wanting to use it on you.
All the men that I know want to play around with something they can arouse you with. Men love to get kinky with sex toys. Men are all about the pleasure. This activity should be a very pleasurable experience for the both of you. If you find that it is a discomfort and really isn't sexually pleasing then you needed to discuss this matter so that you can move forward from it.
If you are not open and honest to what is sexually pleasing then sex becomes an activity that you anticipate with your partner. Satisfaction is what you hope the end result of your love making is. Think about how much pleasure you are denying yourself because you are too shy or embarrassed to share your deepest secrets and sexual desires. We all have them and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. They are just fooling themselves. If your girlfriend said she never experienced the mind blowing pleasure from a rabbit vibrator then she obviously doesn't know true enjoyment.
This is what it's all about people. Share it all and don't hold yourselves back. Don't keep anymore secrets from each other. Incorporating sex toys of any kind into your love making is such a revelation. Your body never knew what total relaxation really was about.
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